It seems to me that she contributes to the metousiosis of M(who is a part of you). He is less absolute about the possibilities and explanations about life, therefore, with wider horizons, without losing his substance. He is just transforming it into something else that doesn’t bother him/doesn’t give signs of self-violation(‘cause this would have been a red flag). And this happens without violence, without demands, without pressure. She is not the one who does it to yourself(Part of yourself, to be exact). You do it. And you do it freely. She is just the means, the messenger, and not the message.

Metousiosis/Μετουσίωσις = change/transformation of the substance of something, change of the hypostasis of something/someone

Thank you for the dedication, Patrick.